Saturday, March 25, 2006
just so i dont insult anyone,what i'm blogging about has no reference to anyone or any incident.it's just stuff i've been thinking about for some time and i have been keeping it to myself because i'm not sure if people would get offended.so even if it sounds like a scenario u've been in,it's NOT u,because these things PROB take place everyday,everywhere or sth.oh,esp the sick n injured part(2nd part)i used 'she' doesnt mean anything ok...
i was just thinking..u know sometimes when we dislike a person because he/she has insulted u or sth.how would u react?would you act as if nothing is wrong?or would you openly ignore n dao that person?if u act like nothing is wrong,then friendship becomes superficial.u're basically just preserving urself,just to put up a facade for the world,such that gossip is prevented?but if u ignore n dao dat person,you are being true to urself and others but people may think you're just being petty n should not be so sensitive to every single thing.also from then on,they'd prob think twice about what they're going to say because sometimes,their words may have unintended impact.then friendship becomes awkward and restrained.sigh.
n when someone doesnt feel well or has an injury n there are a lot of people around n u r one of them,what do u do?esp when the injured or sick is ald surrounded by people helping her?if u go away,she may think u dun care about her,but if u stick around,it's so extra..n sometimes it feels weird to ask,"are u feeling ok" because obviously she isnt,dats why she is sick right?n u dunno if u shld ask her because so many people have ald asked her n she's prob sick of saying "i'm ok la" with which u'd prob say "rest more k" or "take care".
n pple who are reading this are prob thinking im thinking too much and they had better watch their words from now on cos i dwell deeply on it n stuff but dats not my intention at all.n now,im having second thoughts about this blog post but then again,this is a blog.it's where thoughts pour out.so pls dont be too judgemental if u read this.
i just realise this is all so solemn.i cant help it.i think im pmsing.but im thinking straight-dat i can assure you.mayb even better than before...
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